Posted on Author Robert Bolden

How do I impact community

As with most change, it must start with you.  It is so empowering to realize and embrace this fact.  The first step is to conceptualize the kind of change you want to see.  Once you have a clear picture of the desired change, think about the experience you have with implementing this kind of change.  Your personal experience will add to your relatability and will give you natural authority on the topic.  If you have a personal story of transformation you are standing on solid ground.

Do you have a community of people in your life right now who share your passion?  It is important to “be” part of a community that you want.  With that social validity you can point others to a living example of the change you want to see.

Don’t be a complainer…  the big watch out involves being part of a solution verses someone who is pointing out what is wrong.  That,  is passive, and very uninspiring.  You have to be willing to act with genuine passion.  If you don’t truly want to see change, people will sense that and see through it, and you will deeply damage your opportunity to make a difference.

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Posted on Author Robert Bolden

Community Power

We believe the problem we all have is that we are in isolation.  Even though we are more connected than anytime in history we are also more isolated.  Our solution is community… and we have the ultimate community that you will be able to interact with other people who are seeking more out of life, and are ready to collaborate, and team up to serve the world in a loving and impactful way.  We are a community that is For you, doesn’t Judge you, and is in Harmony with you.  Our community helps you go from Isolation to Community… next step Freedom!!!  We love that you are here!!! 

Register for this free Summit the first Monday of every month.  Meet some of our community members and take away valuable transformational information that you can apply today.

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Red flags and Green flags in relationships

New relationships can be exciting! It can also be tough to navigate whether someone is genuine or not.  We all can hope that the other person is who they say they are and are not putting on some great act, but it can happen. During these early stages of a relationship is where we can ignore signs that we otherwise might not. The happiness and joy that a new relationship can bring can cause us to put blinders on. This is where discernment comes in. In these two videos, We have all heard of red flags but what about green flags. It is important to be on alert for red flags but it is also important to see the green flags as well! Robert and Alana will discuss how to notice red flags versus green flags in these two new videos.

 

In this first video, you will learn some possible red flags that could pop up in a new relationship. If you are a male, Robert gives some good pointers on things to keep an eye out for. His first point is that her identity is in what she does or what she has., not Christ. This could be a sign that you are not equally yoked in the spiritual area of your life and a red flag for moving forward.No confidence is another red flag to take notice of. If she won’t make eye contact, seems distracted, or just goes along with everything you say, this could be a reason to ask some deeper questions. If she dwells on the past or the future this could cause problems in the relationship in terms of not being in the present moment. She may have some healing to do and this may require some discussion. Watch to hear some tips on spotting red flags in males!

 

What are Red Flags in a Relationship

 

Green means go!

 

In this next video, Robert and Alana give some tips on noticing the green flags in a new relationship. We have heard all about the red flags but what about the green flags? Green flags are the things that you and your new partner are in alignment with that would be a reason to continue growing the relationship and moving forward. One of the main points would be “clear intentions” There is nothing more frustrating than starting to have feelings for someone and your relationship is in limbo. It is important to have clear intentions from the beginning on what you are both wanting out of the relationship. Do you both want to get married, have kids, travel, etc, Make sure your core values and beliefs are aligned. They do not have to be exactly the same but have a clear understanding of them. Their friends are a good clue as to their integrity. If their friends speak highly of them it is a good sign that you can trust that. Robert states that laughter is a huge green flag. life can be serious enough and relationships can be hard. When you find someone you can laugh with it makes life so much more joyful. We hope you enjoy this video and would love for you to offer feedback and any questions you may have.

 

Green Flags in Relationships

 

Lord, we ask for your guidance and discernment for those who are looking for that special someone they are equally yoked with. We pray for specifics in situations and your will to be done.

Amen.

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